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by Dr. Michael Haggstrom
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The news. Social media. Even casual conversations.
What once felt like a space for connection—family updates, funny memes, shared milestones—has turned into a barrage of outrage, manipulation, and emotional warfare.
For empaths, this isn’t just background noise. It seeps into your being, hijacking your emotions before you even realize what’s happening.
If you feel drained, hopeless, or like the world is suffocating, it’s not just in your head.
The rise of narcissistic behaviour is reshaping how we interact, and empaths feel it at every level.
Empaths don’t just observe emotions—they absorb them.
You pick up on tension, deceit, and power plays—even when people try to hide them.
One day, a person or media source says one thing; the next, they deny they ever said it.
The constant rewriting of reality can leave you doubting your instincts.
You might feel caught in a storm that isn’t even yours to fight.
Research Insight: Emotional contagion (Hatfield, E et al., 1994) proves that emotions spread like viruses.
If you’re surrounded by negativity, your nervous system absorbs it—leaving you mentally and physically exhausted.
"More empaths are coming in for counselling exhausted, saying the same thing: 'I don’t know how to reclaim my peace.' "
- Dr. Michael Haggstrom
Narcissistic behaviour isn’t just becoming more visible—it’s rising.
Studies show that social media rewards self-promotion, entitlement, and lack of accountability (Twenge & Campbell, 2009).
A 2010 study found that college students today score 40% lower on empathy than those in the 1980s and 1990s (Konrath et al., 2011).
You’re not imagining it.
The world has shifted, and your nervous system feels it.
"With the right help, I’ve seen empaths go from exhaustion to empowerment. It all starts with the right skills."
- Dr. Michael Haggstrom
Everywhere you turn, there’s noise.
The news. The betrayals. The cruelty. The outright lies.
You see people twisting reality—and others believing it.
You watch manipulative people rise in power—while good people get stepped on.
You’ve tried to fight back, but that only drains you more.
And deep down, a question lingers:
How do you keep your heart open in a world that’s telling you to close it?
Because let’s be real—
Empaths don’t just absorb emotions—they absorb the weight of the world.
When the world is in chaos, it makes you question everything:
You don’t need another self-care tip.
You need to understand why you feel like this in the first place.
Because when you get to the root of it, something shifts:
Is This Happening to You?
Fill in the blanks—not to fix, but to recognize:
Now What?
If this resonated—if you’ve felt this exhaustion, confusion, and loss of faith in the world—you’re not alone.
💡 Understand the truth about your empathic nature and what’s draining you.
There’s a way forward—but it starts with understanding what’s really happening.
"Empaths don’t just feel the world—they carry it. But you don’t have to hold it alone.
The first step is understanding what’s really happening to you."
- Dr. Michael Haggstrom
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"Empaths aren’t just sensitive—they’re deeply attuned to the world. Without boundaries, that gift turns into exhaustion. Protecting your energy isn’t selfish—it’s survival."
- Dr. Michael Haggstrom
References & Research: Hatfield, E., Cacioppo, J. T., & Rapson, R. L. (1994). Emotional Contagion. Cambridge University Press. ♦︎ Twenge, J. M., & Campbell, W. K. (2009). The Narcissism Epidemic: Living in the Age of Entitlement. Free Press. ♦︎ Konrath, S., O'Brien, E. H., & Hsing, C. (2011). Changes in dispositional empathy in American college students over time: A meta-analysis. Personality and Social Psychology Review, 15(2), 180-198.♦︎ Vrtička, P., Favre, P., & Singer, T. (2017). The neuroscience of group membership: Implications for the self, social relationships, and society. Frontiers in Psychology, 8, 1272. ♦︎ Niemi, L., & Young, L. (2016). When and why we see victims as responsible: The impact of ideology on attitudes toward victims. Personality and Social Psychology Bulletin, 42(9), 1227-1242. ♦︎ van der Kolk, B. A. (2014). The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma. Viking.
About Dr. Haggstrom
Dr. Michael Haggstrom, Doctor in Counselling, has a full-time clinical counselling practice and is a Registered Clinical Social Worker with the Alberta College of Social Workers, Canada.
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This isn’t just about self-care or “staying positive.”
Those surface-level solutions miss the point.
Empaths don’t just feel deeply—they believe deeply.
But what happens when the world stops reflecting those values back?
It’s not just burnout.
It’s moral exhaustion.
Psychologists call this “moral injury”—the feeling of helplessness when the world no longer reflects your values.
This is why traditional “self-care” advice doesn’t work for empaths.